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My thoughts are full of the great girlfriend that my wife was but that doesn’t exist anymore?

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My thoughts are full of the great girlfriend that my wife was but that doesn’t exist anymore? I miss that intimacy and stimulation. My head is now full of other ladies. Am I on the right path?


The right path on many predicaments can be just found using empathy as a guiding post. Before judging the wife, build true empathy with your wife by mentally visualizing yourself carrying a child in your tummy for 9 straight months and then breastfeeding for a year. Do it again and again and you will see your inner feeling of care and empathy truly take root.

Visualize yourself playing with the baby and the baby responding to you. Visualize the grown-up child accomplishing things, saying good things about you, and taking care of you when you are sick. Cultivate it and see how differently the wife will react to you. Your wife will eventually get back to normal life in a few months. She needs your support to get through the end of 9 months of gut-wrenching experience.

You will collect the rewards of higher intimacy which are not possible to build in regular times. With higher intimacy, you will enjoy the companionship and sex much more than chasing other ladies with no intimacy. This is an opportunity to cultivate intimacy that will make you a better human being. Don’t forgo it.


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